Not exactly where you want to be in life?
Have you ever woken up and just said to yourself, “How did I get here?” How did I end up settling for this life? Why am I talking to myself? Well, theres still time. You don’t have to stay in this life that you do not want, do not accept things as they are, DO SOMETHING to change it! Easier said than done I know, but start by taking steps. Don’t read this, quit your job and move to Vegas you eager beaver, take your time and things will begin to happen.
1.) Get out of your comfort zone!
It can be easy to stay where you feel safe, but you will just stay there. Dare to be different! If you do what you always do, you’ll get what you always got. Don’t be afraid of failure your whole life, do something that scares you. Do something everyday that scares you or makes your nervous! Say hello to strangers, take the lead on a project at work, anything that doesn’t fall in to your comfort category. Hell, if your a woman, spread on that red lipstick! No discrimination men, if your into that sort of thing….
2.) Never Give Up! It can become very discouraging with each fail you endure, but let it make you better! Do you think Michael Jordan gave up after giving up 26 game winning shots? NOPE! He not only became one of the greatest NBA players of all time, he also got to star in a movie with Bill Murray and the Looney Tunes….
Talk about a success story!
Do you think Thomas Edison gave up each time one of his inventions failed and everyone told me he was crazy? NOPE! You have lights on don’t you? “I’ve not failed, I’ve just found 10,000 ways that don’t work.” -Thomas Edison
3.) You may be your own worst enemy, Debbie Downer.
You might be the person standing in your way of happiness. Telling yourself you can’t do things, foreseeing negative outcomes, not being able to be happy for others, or always worrying about what may go wrong. You are spending lots of energy on things that haven’t happened yet. Unless your Sylvia Brown you can’t predict the future, so stop…..just stop. Instead do with what you have control of and think positive. Where will you get in life thinking like this…..
I’ll tell you, not very far. When you think better you feel better. If you think your going to fail that test, chances are you just might. If you think you’ll never lose the weight, you probably won’t. Change the way you think! Hey, it worked for Biggie Smalls…..
He got what he wanted….” a 50 inch screen, money green, leather sofa. Got two rides, a limousine with a chauffeur.”
You can do what ever you put your mind to! If it’s….
Going back to School
or losing the weight…
Remember, if you can dream it you can do it! Start your road to success today and get out of that slump. You are the only one that can make things happen!
Start today by taking the bull by the horns!!!